Showing posts with label warm fuzzies. Show all posts
Showing posts with label warm fuzzies. Show all posts

Wednesday, March 9, 2011

Spring Break Progress

I can't believe I'm already halfway through my spring break.  The time you want to go by quickly never does, yet the time you want to slow down winds up zipping by like a mayfly's life cycle.  Stupid bugs.

I kicked my week off with a fancy schmancy dinner for my family Sunday evening.  The menu consisted of "Perfect Pot Roast" from The Pioneer Woman, and a few selections from the Irish Pub Cooking book I scored from B&N recently, potato cakes and a chocolate cream cheesecake!  Yum.

I was fully prepared to chronicle my cooking extravaganza, but thought a few snapshots would suffice instead.  Cue snapshots!

Despite its commercial appeal, the recipes looked fabulous.  And so far have proven to be just as tasty.  

P-dubs' Pot Roast- thyme, rosemary, carrots, onion, and a chuck roast was involved.  Oh and love.  Sheer love.  My house has never smelled so amazing.   
I count this a major success in my book- it's the first roast I've made el solo, and I didn't burn the house or the meat to cinders.  Win.

Perhaps the source of my feeling like it was me who immigrated from Ireland rather than my great grandfather- potato cakes.  Curiously delicious.  
The dinner ensemble

... Never forget dessert... 

It might not look like much but it tasted... well... how to describe?  
Close enough.  

I'm still recovering from the sheer deliciousness of it all.  Unfortunately, due to a series of poorly timed events, I haven't been to karate yet this week which isn't helping me feel any less sluggish after such a rich evening.  But I digress.  


With this beauty from California Pizza Kitchen, Hawaiian BBQ!
Monday proved just as fabulous when Lakota and I indulged in some of that amiga time I spoke of, and what better place to do that than CPK?  

Status quo?  I've eaten some fabulous food and spent time with even more fab friends so far.  More amiga time tomorrow with my girl Amanda!  Not too shabby!  

I really have been filling in the holes with productive activities, I promise.  I'm just highlighting, well, the highlights.  Spackling isn't exactly a highlight.  Nor is a puppy watching.  

Due to the copious amounts of wet weather I've experienced lately, my outdoor plans will unfortunately have to be put on hold this week.  Le sigh.  

Happy midweek to one and all,

RF

Saturday, March 5, 2011

The Pioneer Woman and Me

Ree Drummond a.k.a. The Pioneer Woman a.k.a. P-Dub made a stop to St. Louis last weekend on her book tour.  Of course I was there.  I have photographic evidence.  P-Dub is darling.  Her husband, Marlboro Man, was there as well.  MM is darling too.

Photographic evidence.  That's me hanging out behind P-Dub.  Somehow Lakota and her Momma snuck in there too...  Just kidding, I love you ladies.   

I recently found myself presented with an unexpected day off.  With that extra time on my hands, and in honor of meeting P-Dub and Marlboro Man themselves, I decided to do some baking.  What better way to celebrate meeting a cookbook author than to make something from said cookbook?  


Enter said cookbook. 

The Closet Cook strikes again!  I decided on Cinnamon Rolls.  I also decided that Ree's original recipe was better suited for an army.  Seeing as my family of three probably would drown under the sheer amount of cinnamon roll goodness the original recipe would produce, I created a halved recipe.  Rather, I divided the ingredients in half which isn't nearly the same creating a recipe.  I digress. 


The original recipe is available on Ree's website, of course.  

The modified version for people who don't have an army to feed:
Dough:
2 cups whole milk*
1/2 cup vegetable oil
1/2 cup sugar
 1 package active dry yeast
4 1/2 cups all purpose flour
1/2 teaspoon baking powder
1/2 teaspoon baking soda
1/2 tablespoon salt

Filling:
1 cup melted butter
1/8 cup ground cinnamon 
1 cup sugar

Maple** icing:

1 pound powdered sugar
1/4 cup whole* milk
3 tablespoons melted butter
1/8 cup strongly brewed coffee
Pinch of salt
1/2 tablespoon maple flavoring or maple extract

 * I have to make a confession.  I didn't use whole milk.  I used 1%.  Because that's what we drink.  And I didn't want to buy whole milk.

** I have another confession to make, I didn't make maple icing.  I pretty much just didn't add the coffee or the maple flavoring.

They tasted delicious still, I promise.


Following Ree's faithful cookbook, I started with the dough.  I heated the milk, vegetable oil, and sugar, taking care not to allow the mixture to boil.  Just shy of boiling, I removed it from the heat.  The cookbook instructs to allow the mixture to cool to lukewarm before adding the yeast.


Or you can just remove from the heat and add the yeast on top right away like I did.  I then allowed the yest to chill on top for a minute.  One minute.  Not one second more or less.  Because I like to pick and choose which directions are more important than others.


Next is the flour.  3 1/2 cups of it.  I stirred until just combined and then covered the bowl with a dish towel for an hour.

Then I had an hour to fill.

So I went and twiddled my thumbs.

Actually, I went and burned some brush out back.

When my hour was up, I recruited my brother to watch the fire while I attended to the dough. 


To the ruminating dough I added the baking powder, baking soda, salt, and the rest of the dough (1 cup).

At this point, the dough can actually be refrigerated for up to three days.  I chose to use it right away, which is allowed per Ree's recipe.  It's also at this point I would advise to chill the dough for at least another hour, because I found the dough could have been easier to work with if it had had time to firm up a bit.  Details smetails. 


The next step, regardless of whether it's three minutes or three days after the last step, is to melt some butter and swish is around the desired baking pan.  Which is what I did.

This looks nothing like a rectangle.  

This was the (messy) fun part.  I rolled the dough, attempting to follow the "rectangle shape" instructions.  I obviously failed geometry.

Sniff.  I did the best I could.

Now, the original recipe directs you to work with half of the dough at this point.  I did this, but, long story short, don't.  In this shortened recipe, I should have used the whole blob of dough at once.  Pretend I did this.


I added about half of a 1/2 cup of melted butter next.  Then sprinkled the cinnamon and the sugar EVERYWHERE.  Then I added the rest of the butter.  And then added some more cinnamon and sugar again too.  Yum.


Once the filling was perfected to all of its buttery sugary cinnamony glory, I started rolling the dough.  The goal was a rolled dough log.  I had a rolled dough blob.  I tried to keep each layer as tight as possible, because it would make more rings in the rolls and more rings means... I don't really know what it means.  But it's important.

This.  smells.  amazing. 
The next step was to cut the log into strips.  This is the point I realized I wish I had chilled the dough.  The dough circles I cut didn't retain the circular shape that seems to be the norm for cinnamon rolls.  I had cinnamon blobs.

Despite its unruliness, this.  looks.  amazing.

Let me introduce my cinnamon blobs.  I assure you, however, they tasted fantastic no matter what their shape.  I would also suggest to cut the rolls wider as opposed to thinner. 

I then placed the rolls into the baking pan and preheated the oven to 375 degrees Fahrenheit.  I covered the pan with a dish towel and set aside for 20 minutes to let the dough rise.  Once I finished twiddling my thumbs for 20 minutes, I removed the towel and baked for the suggested 13 to 17 minutes.  Make sure the rolls are baked through enough.  I didn't and I almost ruined the whole thing. 


While the rolls were baking, I made the icing!  I whisked together the powdered sugar, butter, and salt.  If they're not crazy like me, one could go ahead and add the coffee and maple flavoring too.  This is what makes it maple icing.  I just had butter and sugar icing.  Whisk whisk whisk.

Action shot!

Once the cinnamon rolls were baked sufficiently, I promptly removed them from the oven and poured the icing EVERYWHERE.

Then I sat back and drooled.

Then I located a bowl.

And a fork.    

Bowl of love. 

This is a bowl of love.  It is love in a bowl.  With a fork.

Make these.  As soon as possible.  Eat them for breakfast.  

Or you can make them in the middle of the day if you want.  Like I did.  Whatever floats your boat.

I'm no Pioneer Woman, but I'd like to think of this as an adventure of the Pioneer Woman and me.

Signed,

A Closet Cook

Friday, January 14, 2011

The Tomorrow When The War Began Film, An American's Review

Disclaimer: I apologize in advance for this long post.  It's long.  
The last time I wrote about one of my favorite books Tomorrow When The War Began by John Marsden, I was anxiously anticipating its recently produced film to make its way to me here in the States.  Well my happy people, the joyous package arrived in my mail yesterday.  That is after hoping for years that a film would be made on the books, drooling over the trailers when said film finally came into being, formulating far fetched plans of rowing to Australia to see the film, and later pre-ordering the DVD, the TWTWB movie was on my doorstep.  O frabjous day!  After all the ears I've talked off announcing my praises for this series over the years, I feel that it is only right for me to offer a review of said movie.  An American's review, obviously, because I am in fact an American.  I apologize in advance to Australians everywhere if I sound ignorant in any of my commentary, I mean no offense.  Love you guys.

My previous review of the TWTWB books I featured in a post last November, so check that out if you want.  The story is about a group of seven Australian teenagers who go on a camping trip during their Christmas holidays, more specifically over the weekend of Commemoration Day.  When they return, they find their homes abandoned and their families missing.  They begin piecing together the facts of the confusing situation until they figure out the only plausible story they could think of where all the pieces fit: their country has been invaded and their families have been captured.  The group, soon joined by an eighth teenager, steps into the role of guerrilla soldiers, attempting to combat the invading forces and reclaim their homes.  It's a hell* of a ride.  *wink

Marsden clearly crafted his books in an extraordinary way.  His readers can relate to the characters and while the story may seem far fetched, it's quite believable. As a reader I found myself wondering what I would do were I to find myself in a similar situation; I feel this is a hallmark of good literature.  Then I saw the American film Red Dawn from 1984 and decided I'd leave the guess work up to pros like Marsden.  It was because of my deep affection for this book series that I hoped for a film adaptation, and a decent one at that.  I don't know how it is in Australia, but in the States it has long been the norm that book to film adaptations are generally horrible.  Sometimes if you watch the film without thinking about the poor book it ripped off and left to rot, then you might find yourself acceptably amused.  It was because of this I had a reservation, and an expectation, for a TWTWB film.  I must say that overall this film did not disappoint.  American film directors ought to take a leaf out of Stuart Beattie's hat.

On the casting and characterization, my thoughts are as follows.


Ellie Linton and Lee Takkam

Ellie was one of my favorite characters in the books, namely because with her as the narrator I saw most of the story through her eyes.  I also like Ellie's aloof personality and her sense of humor.  Ellie was played by actress Caitlin Stasey.  

Pros: I felt that Stasey really embodied Ellie, which wasn't an easy task in my sight as Ellie is basically the main character of the story.  Stasey had a great chemistry with the other actors, especially with Rachel Hurd-Wood who played Ellie's best friend Corrie.  Their relationship brought me to tears in some parts, which I credit the actresses' chemistry.  I felt the same connection in the film between Ellie and Corrie that I felt in the books and that I feel in real life with my best friends.  

Cons: As with any book to film adaptations, readers have to reconcile the way they pictured characters in the book to the way they're represented in the film.  Thus my only con for Ellie in the film is simply I didn't picture her quite as charming and beautiful.  No offense Ellie of the book.  To the film's credit, Ellie's physical appearance is never really described in detail so this is a freebie.  

Lee was always a minor character in my mind, no offense buddy.  I wasn't ever a real fan of him for reasons unknown.  Lee was played by actor Chris Pang.

Pros: The Lee of the film really grew on me.  He's still not my favorite character, but the film actually helped me see Lee a little better.  I was also pleasantly surprised by the chemistry between Pang and Stasey (Ellie); I can see Ellie and Lee as a couple in the film.  

Cons:  Due to my precedence with Lee, I was hesitant to liking Lee in the film at all (like I said I warmed up to him).  I will say that he didn't immediately fit as Lee in my mind the way some of the other actors did, but again that's the reader interpretation fallacy I mentioned.  A real con, I felt, to Lee in the film was that some of his lines were on the awkward side.  In the book Lee was the reserved-turned-pro-fighting guy who was prone to rather insightful comments that took the other characters by surprise.  In the film what I took for those insightful comments were actually quite abrupt and awkward; I feel with some minor tailoring to some of the lines, however, this could have been corrected.  In the grand scheme of things, this wasn't a show stopper.  


Homer Yannos and Fiona Maxwell

Homer is my top favorite character in the book.  I always liked his rough and tumble sort of personality. He seems like a fun guy to hang around.  In the film, Homer is played by actor Deniz Akdeniz.  

Pros:  If his name wasn't charming enough, Akdeniz is one beautiful man.  Even if Homer wasn't my favorite from the books, he certainly was after seeing this film.  Akdeniz hit Homer spot on and rounded out his character perfectly.  Akdeniz blended Homer's boisterous, trouble-maker personality well with his guerrilla mindset.  I especially loved the tribute to Homer's history of waiting for repairmen to go up on the roof and then stealing their ladders.  Hilarious.  Also, his attraction towards Fi (Fiona) was simply adorable.  

Cons:  I honestly don't have a single con about Homer.  

Fiona is rarely (if ever) referred to as such in the books, I always knew her as Fi.  Obviously this is the shortened version of her name, but me in my infinite quirkiness got it in my head that her name rhymed with pie.  Any other logical minded human being probably recognized that Fi had to have been short for Fiona and thus rhymed with fee.  I rest my embarrassing case.  Anyway, so Fi (I have since reconciled to   what her name actually is, for the record) is the porcelain doll turned unexpected bad ass.  I love her.  She's played by Phoebe Tonkin in the film.

Pros:  Tonkin wedded Fi's "city-girl" side with her bad ass side brilliantly.  She's gorgeous, yes.  She's rich, yes.  But she's not a snob and she's not completely useless.  Tonkin was quite possibly one of my favorite of the film characters.  She was the girl who never really knew a life outside of town, but she wasn't an air-head (her mother, on the other hand... see below).

Cons: The film had two glaring stereotypes (three actually, with Lee's family, but that was bound to happen) that I wasn't a fan of, Fi's family was one of them.  Fi comes from a wealthy family who lives in a big house in town while the other teens are "rurals." No problem.  Well in the film, our first glimpse of Fi is this...

Yes, they're talking to each other.  On the phone.  Three feet apart.  

Ugh, the stereotype permeates even the picture sans the acting.  Layer on Fi's mother's horrendously fake mannerisms, and you've got one part of the film that in my mind never happened.  I always felt that Fi and her family, while wealthy, were meant to be decent, ordinary people just like the other teens' families.  Instead her mother, at any rate, was portrayed as an utter snob.  Fortunately, this ate up all of one minute, two tops, of the film and it didn't affect Fi's character.  


Corrie Mackenzie and Kevin Holmes

Corrie was always dear to me because as Ellie's best friend, I felt protective of Corrie in the way I feel about my best friends.  Corrie is the friend who's more like a sister because of how long she and Ellie have known each other.  Rachel Hurd-Wood portrays Corrie in the film.  

Pros:  Corrie is spunky and admittedly a little boy-crazy without, again, being stereotypical.  Her chemistry with Stasey (Ellie), like I said before, was very genuine.  

Cons: My only issue with Corrie has actually nothing to do with her character.  At the beginning of the film Ellie receives a text from Corrie which prompts her to ride a dirt bike over to Corrie's house.  The film then shows us that the town of Wirrawee is preparing for Australia Day by having Ellie pass by the showground.  While this was a technique to show, rather than tell, the audience about Australia Day, it didn't quite work in the logistics of the story.  Corrie was supposed to live outside of town, like Ellie.  When the teens return from their trip and start trying to figure out what happened, they go to Ellie's, Homer's, Kevin's, and Corrie's respective houses.  They don't go into town right away.  But based on the placement that Corrie lived close enough to town that Ellie had to pass through it on the way to Corrie's house, they would have had to go dangerously close if not into the town itself to get to Corrie's after the trip.  This one con, however, can be summed up thusly: I am a book freak and I doubt no one else really cares about this detail.  I just wanted to appease the freak in me.

Kevin was the older guy who only came on the camping trip because he was dating Corrie, and as Ellie suspected, Corrie mightn't have been as apt to go if Kevin wasn't involved.  Kevin was described as appearing rather dense, but he is later understood as just being on the quiet side.  He's really loyal to Corrie, which is beautiful especially given what they go through.  Kevin was played by Lincoln Lewis, whose name I love.

Pros:  Lewis did a splendid job with Kevin's loyalty to Corrie.  He has his moments, but in the end he really comes through.  Also, he has this awesome dog named Flip whose name I am seriously considering using to name my own dog.  Here's Flip now!

Flip!

Cons:  I was never that invested in Kevin's character to really have any cons about him in the film.  



Robyn Mathers and Chris Lang

Robyn was a cool cat.  She always stuck to her beliefs and was in general a good-hearted person.  She was played by Ashleigh Cummings in the film.

Pros:  I'm sorry to say but I don't really have any pros for Robyn in the film.  While I liked her in the book, in the film...

Cons: Robyn was the one character I still can't completely accept in the film.  I was able to accept Lee, but for some reason I didn't see Robyn at all the way she was portrayed in the film.  She had a mousy quality about her, like she spent too much time in a church.  This was the second glaring stereotype in the film, even more annoying to me than Fi's mother in fact.  Robyn's parents were supposed to be very strict and her father was a pastor.  The film took this to the extreme that, lest we forget that Robyn and her family were "religious," in practically every scene that we see Robyn's father (it's a relatively short period of time, fortunately) there's always the perfect angle of the shot so we see a crucifix on his wall, there's crosses and angels everywhere in Robyn's yard and house, and Robyn herself has a strategically placed cross necklace that catches the light as she picks up a gun later in the film.  We get it, they're religious.  This wasn't such a glaring, in your face concept in the books.

There was hand holding involved.  Seriously.  That bad.  

This is the scene where Ellie, Robyn, and Corrie (not pictured) are attempting to convince Robyn's father (opposite the image) to allow Robyn to go on the camping trip.  All three girls obviously went to great lengths to appear extremely conservative in their appearances and Robyn spent the whole time talking about how it was good for the teens to get away from the "pressures of the world" (or something like that) and get closer to God in nature.  I think my biggest problem with this is the liberty taken from Robyn's parents in the book- there is nothing to indicate that they were so stereotypically "religious."  They were strict, yes, and Robyn was always the moral center of the group, yes, but this was taken to an unrealistic extreme in the film.  While I was able to drop the issue I had with Fi's mother, I really can't let this one go.  Even still, it doesn't deter my overall opinion of the film.  

Last but not least is Chris, the stoner who joins the gang after the invasion.  Chris was the loner sort of guy who smoked and wrote, both in excess.  He has a tragic sort of aspect to his character.  While not my absolute favorite, I always liked Chris.  He was a cool guy.  In the film he was portrayed by Andrew Ryan.

Pros:  While I don't agree that Ryan was the best choice to portray Chris, I feel that in any book to film there are certain liberties that have to be made and I can accept the ones that are committed to and delivered soundly.  Ryan just happened to do this and for that I give him credit.  He played a laid back, almost hippie-like stoner with a sense of humor that wasn't jaded by the awful things he'd seen since the invasion.  

Cons:  Chris was exactly the opposite of humorous.  He was actually rather despondent and depressed.  He didn't really have anything to fight for, in his eyes, as his parents were overseas when the invasion took place.  He had a very dark side and spent a lot of his time writing.  He did smoke, yes, and was described as a stoner in school, but he didn't have the "happy go lucky" sort of personality of the Chris in the film.  This is one of his poems that Ellie read:

They will carry me to the field
Through the wreaths of mist
Moist on my face,
And the lamb will pause
For a thoughtful stare.
The soldiers, they will come.
They will lay me in the dark cold earth
And push the clods in upon my face.  
(The Dead of Night, John Marsden, pg. 264)

Basically my con with Chris is, while his portrayal in the film was a sound character, he was almost two completely different Chris' between the book and the film.  Taken alone, the film was fine in this aspect however.  Again, this is me being nit-picky.  

Overall, I loved the film.  My greatest disappointment is that it didn't cover all seven books, but alas I think I can forgive them... My pros and cons of the whole film are as follows.  

Pros: It's got to be the best adaptation I've ever seen; I feel the director committed to the book instead of abandoning it like most other adaptations I've seen.  I also like how they made the story to fit our standard of modern.  The books were published in the early 1990s and were set in modern times, albeit an alternate-universe.  As it is the 2000s, times have changed slightly.  This was most specifically seen in the film's use of cellphones.  While they didn't have cellphones in the book, it would have been weird for the characters to not have them in the film. The scene where they're all trying to get a connection of any sort to the outside world, e.g. via television, radio, etc. the first thing the whole group does is whip out their cells, only to receive a no signal message.  I also noticed that Ellie had a Macbook Pro, which made me smile (as I have one).  This was a great tribute to Marsden's creation of a timeless book series.  

Cons: I daresay, the film almost relied too heavily on the audience knowing the story.  This could be because the book series is the Hatchet and To Kill A Mockingbird of Australia, i.e. it's, as I understand, a school reading list staple in Australia; as the film was produced and released in Australia, it's not a stretch to assume that most people would know the story.  
Even still I wish the film had introduced the conclusion that the teenagers come to, that they've been invaded, more realistically.  In the book they searched some of their houses looking for clues as to why their families were all gone and their homes abandoned.  When they got to Corrie's house, they discovered a fax Corrie's father sent that said, "Corrie, I'm in the Show Secretary's Office.  Something's going on.  People say it's just Army manoeuvres but I'm sending this anyway, then heading home to tear it up so no one'll know what an idiot I've been.  But Corrie, if you do get this, go bush.  Take great care.  Don't come out till you know it's safe.  Much love darling, Dad" (TWTWB pg. 73).  I only point this out because this was the first real evidence the teens found that not only explained perfectly all the puzzling clues they had, but also introduced the sinister idea that they'd been invaded.  Without the note, an invasion would have made as much realistic sense as if a group of American teens found themselves in the same situation.  It wouldn't.  The film omits this entirely however and the group seems to make that leap and decide that they've been invaded solely on the evidence that: they saw planes flying overhead while out camping, their families are nowhere to be found, and their homes haven't been looked after in days.  As I said the film almost relied too heavily on knowing the story, if I had seen the film without any knowledge of the books I would have had no idea how they jumped to that conclusion.  

Now if I had a dollar for every time I referenced "the book(s)" in this post thus far, I would be a very rich college student.  As it is I don't and I'm not.  My detailed criticism aside, one of the ways this film sealed the deal for me was a choice scene plopped in the middle for good measure, and it just might make all my book references worthwhile:  The group of eight are back at their camp and Ellie asks Corrie about the book she's reading.  Corrie makes a comment to the effect that "It's better than the movie was," which Ellie responds with, "They always are."  
I just want to give the director a big hug for this little gem.  Why?  Because that scene seemed to show that Beattie acknowledged that the film wasn't going to be able to replace the books, and furthermore that it shouldn't.  This is the prime area I feel many American directors so often fail at adaptations; books can't be topped.  Okay in some extreme cases where the book may have been awful to begin with and the only direction to go from is up, maybe, but in the vast majority of the cases the book is always better.  This doesn't mean the film is pointless, however.  Film adaptations are lovely because, when done right (hint hint), they give fanatic readers (such as moi) another chunk of the wonderful story to feast on.

Thus, in my marathon reviewing extravaganza, I would highly recommend this film.  Basically, the film took a book series I love dearly and created an acceptable film, not as a replacement, but in addition to the books.  Still, I recommend the books even more.  Whether you're American, Australian, or Anaractican, the books draw you in and intertwine your fate with that of the characters.  You won't regret reading this series.  I hope you enjoy the movie as much as I did, as well.  

One last thing, if you're American, I had a heck of a time seeing this movie.  So far the film has only been released to DVD in Australia and possibly New Zealand; I ordered my copy online from Australia.  It's worth noting that the DVD is coded as Region 1, which means that most DVD players in the U.S. won't play the disc as our DVDs are Region 4.  I found that my Macbook Pro will let me reset the region code, so I was able to view the film.  However it said I could only set the region four times which makes me wonder if that means I can only have it set to one or the other and that I'd ultimately have to choose between the two.  I found some information online that leads me to believe I might be able to make my computer region-free, as a potential resolution.  I don't know if PCs offer the region adjustment.  The other option is to get a region-free DVD player.  I've been looking into this and found a couple reasonably priced (i.e. 30 to 60 dollars range) ones on Amazon.  I just thought I'd throw that out there.  Obviously I have a copy, if any of my friends out there would like to borrow it sometime.  

Cheers everyone!  Go read!    

Love, 
RF 


Saturday, January 8, 2011

You are beautiful

Online social media sites can be a great way to interact with the world, keep up to date on the latest and greatest, or simply waste a whole lot of time (I will raise a hand to that).  I'm part of the technology generation and from personal experience, I'm all for online social media; but what happens when people go too far?  

I don't mean the ridiculous amount of time college students such as myself spend procrastinating on Facebook.  I'm talking about when online social media is used in such a way that promotes actual harm to people.  Hopefully you recall the 2006 suicide of St. Louis area native, Megan Meier, after being harassed by the mother of a school friend using a fake MySpace profile; the incident prompted the Megan Meier Cyber Bullying Prevention Act of 2009 though it never became law.  What a horrible situation.  Let me introduce a new piece of work, an individual by the name of Kenneth Tong who uses his Twitter page for, well, I'll let the tweets do the talking. 
" @... I am indeed for real, and my size zero pill works, I serve as thinspiration to Twitter, of which is my stage.
Inner beauty is a myth. You are just fat. You are unloved. People look at you & are pleasant cause they feel sorry for you. Size Zero...
If your beautiful in your own way, am glad you appreciate yourself, cause that plus size garment can't breathe with your fat stretching it.
I do no promote anorexia. I promote managed anorexia. I created the latter term. I defined the latter, I assure you there is a difference.
I wholeheartedly hope I put you off your Dinner. Look at yourself. You are a disgrace. That's why the Guy you like doesn't notice you
@KhloeKardashian We've met a few times, but you'd be perfect as a Size Zero - I've launched a new Size Zero Pill. I'll send it to the shop?  "
Believe me, there was more.  Much more.  I sincerely hope that anyone who reads even these snippets of what this man is purporting would find themselves absolutely outraged.  I am.

While I could very well delve into a lengthy dissemination of just what is wrong with Tong's campaign, there is a broader picture here.  Part of that broader picture is the use of online social media.  As furious as I am with his message, Tong is simply one of the many sources of negative messages out there.  These sources need a way to reach their audience and a vast majority of them utilize online social media (For instance, Tong has nearly 20,000 followers on Twitter; that's 20,000 people who he can instantly access with one nasty Tweet).  But so do thousands of everyday people, such as you and I.  Online social media gives us a vehicle to, in a way, speak to the world.  In our circles of friends on Facebook, our followers on Twitter, and the people we follow all comprise a giant network; we are a part of a global mouthpiece where it is very possibly the things you post on Facebook and Twitter can be read by people all over the world.  Some choose messages of hate, like Tong.  What will you choose to say to the world?  Let's choose love.

I find this to be an appropriate time to bring up the Operation Beautiful campaign.  Check this video out everyone and remember: you are beautiful just the way you are.



All my love,
RF

Thursday, January 6, 2011

Beauty and the ear of the beholder

What is beautiful?  Can we assign it any one, solitary definition?  Whoever said beauty is in the eye of the beholder was really on to something.  Oddly enough from time to time, I find myself taking pause at certain sounds that I personally find absolutely beautiful.  These are my top five favorite sounds. 

5.  Laughter - Genuine, joyous laughter.  It's the stuff that I find I can't help but laugh along with.  The baby giggling in the check-out line at Target.  My angel Grandpa's deep belly laugh.  The room on family game night when someone gets creative with the apples to apples cards (e.g. Hiroshima for loud, Helen Keller for touch-feely... I know, we're horrible people...).

4.  Fire in a wood stove - If I close my eyes and imagine the sound of the fire crackling and popping in the wood stove at the family fort, I almost feel as if I'm there surrounded by my family watching a movie.  The sound makes me feel all warm and fuzzy.

3.  An empty church - The time or two I've had the opportunity to sit in the empty, dark sanctuary of my church I've found myself in complete awe of the sound: silence.  Silence is beautiful anywhere, I suppose, but I think there's something about silence in the sanctuary of a house of God that is absolutely captivating.

2.  A cat's purr - I'm going to be more specific and say my cat's purr.  Chelsea is a cranky old coot that I've had for fifteen years this May.  She's a broad boned, part Mane Coon with gorgeous blue eyes, massive paws, and a sassy disposition.  She is the queen and all creation bows before her.  Or else.  I love her, teeth and all, to pieces.  The sound of her purr is particularly beautiful to me as it is not only rare, it's a deeper, more gravely sound than my other cat who pretty much purrs 24/7.  Chel isn't all barbs, she has a soft side.  Somewhere.  It comes out when she's curled up on the foot of my bed, basking in the warmth of the heater.  That's when she'll start purring.  And I could listen to it all night.

1.  Rain - I have always adored the sound of rain on my window in the mornings.  Even without throwing back the curtains, I love to lay in bed and listen to the rain.  If I'm feeling particularly energetic I might hop out of bed to crack the window and hear the rain more audibly.  Divine.

So there you have it.  Happy weekend!

RF

Monday, January 3, 2011

11 for 2011

I'm going to make a statistical generalization and say that a vast majority of New Year's resolutions wind up in the garbage (or the cookie jar depending on the resolution) by February.  Instead of a resolution or two, I've made a list of goals for this year.  So here are my 11 for 2011:

1.  Secure a commission in the Navy

This is first and foremost.  I've put much thought over the past few months on what my next step in life will be after I graduate university and I've repeatedly arrived here.  I've got a lot of work to do, but I'm ready.

2.  Set monthly fitness goals

While a ridiculous amount of flopped New Year's resolutions are fitness related (gyms and book store featured tables across the country can attest to this), having routine goals is more realistic.  For example, my January goal is 20 minutes of exercise every day (this is in addition to karate).  Furthermore, I've found another running program to work with that I really like, so this is completely doable.  Next month I intend to re-evaluate where I'm at and what I need to do to get better.

3.0  Add some happy hip hop music to my repertoire

Yes, miss classic/hard/gothic rock is actually branching out.  I have slowly come to realize that not all hip-hop is obnoxious and the "happy" variety makes me, well, happy.  It's also great workout music! (For the record I still abhor rap music, just had to put that out there).

3.1  (Because, well, 3.0 needed some more substance.)  Get better at sending greeting cards (i.e. actually do so).

This is a general correspondence goal.  I'd like to start sending actual cards/notes/etc.  Who says my generation is losing touch with "old fashioned" communication?  I intend to fight this gross generalization! 

4.  Tackle an MFA reading list

Okay, start tackling one (most are hellas long).  It's going to be a while before I'm going to be able to go back to school and get another degree, but someday I'd like to consider getting an MFA in creative writing.  In the interim, there's nothing like rounding out my reading to develop my writing skills. 

5.  Go skiing again

I tried skiing for the first time over my Christmas holiday and had a blast.  I intend to hit the slopes again this year. 

6.  Write a blog post a week

While I'm stealing some of my goals from my reinvention list of a few months ago, it's something I want to bring into 2011.  A second part of this is to chronicle my goals as I work towards them.  Writing material!

 7.  Expand my container garden

Last year I cultivated some pepper and cilantro plants, nothing too fancy but it was a success.  As soon as the frost is clear, I intend to start it up again.  I'm looking into what other plants I might add.

8.  Collect my favorite recipes into one cookbook. 

I've mentioned Ree (Pioneer Woman) and her blog a time or two in the past few months.  Someone got the hint and I received her cookbook for Christmas.  I've already found a few recipes that, after rigorous testing (i.e. taste testing!) I will add to the book of life accordingly.  In the mean time, I intend to locate the recipes for my favorite foods.  Many of these are either recipes from my mother, her mother, etc. and recipes that I've happened upon over the years and/or have created (modified) myself.  The bottom line is to have a collection of those tried and true, yummerific foods (it's a technical term). 

9.  Thrift shopping for funky clothes

Again inspired by a blog, this time New Dress A Day, I'd like to hit the estate/garage sales/ flea markets/etc. and try my hand at revamping some old stuff.  This is both friendly to my budget and my personality.

10.  Take some shooting courses

I'm not too shabby at target shooting, but practice never hurt and I'd like to look into some more action oriented courses.  At the very least, if I get to the range more this year I'll be a happy camper.

11.  Karate

I will make my final point in a moment, but before then enjoy this long introduction to my finale!

One thing that scares the living day lights out of me is that my home base will be changing a little over a year from now.  While change is the only constant in life (I really despise that saying, for the record), I have always been a creature of habit who detests said habit to be interrupted.  I'm talking about major stuff such as where I live, where I go to school/work, etc.  I'm the kid who cried at the end of every. single. school year from oh maybe 2nd grade on because I didn't want a new teacher and new classmates.  I feel comfort in what I know (most people do, I suppose).  Well that's all changing again as I shift from student to career woman (that's scary), which in my case will involve a geographic change.  For the record I am bound and determined to get through said change with as few to no emotional breakdowns as possible, I have to grow up sometime... Ahem.

FINALE:  One of my most beloved aspects of my current home base is karate, and I'm going to miss it terribly next year.  I could very well have one of those breakdowns if I think on this too long.  In short, my final goal for 2011 is to (continue to) work as hard (and harder) during the time I have with karate. 


So there it is, my 11 for 2011!  Here's to a great year full of life, love, and growth. 

Cheers,

RF

Thursday, December 2, 2010

Operation Beautiful

"I'm Caitlin, and I'm the editor of Operation Beautiful. The mission of Operation Beautiful is to post anonymous notes in public places for other women to find. The point is that WE ARE ALL BEAUTIFUL. You are enough... just the way you are!"



When I first watched this during a presentation for a psychology project, I literally teared up.  There is something truly beautiful about this.  We are beautiful, every one of us, just the way we are.  I am passing this on to encourage other women to at the very least stop and tell yourself, "I am beautiful."  Because, babe, you are.

I have plans for some sticky note action in the near future
Warm fuzzies,

RF